Karl kneeling beside Tiffa during a surprise proposal at Tandem Ciders in Suttons Bay, Michigan

Tiffa + Karl

They biked 21 miles to get there. Tandem Ciders sits just outside Suttons Bay — a working farm, a low white barn, picnic tables that in two months will be packed and loud. On an April morning with the threat of snow still fresh from the night before, Karl had a ring in his pocket and a plan that required getting Tiffa back outside after she'd just gotten warm.

Karl showing Tiffa a custom Tandem Ciders sweatshirt at a picnic table before his proposal

A place they actually love

Tiffa and Karl are from Chicago, and they've been coming to Tandem Ciders for years. Five or six times, by Karl's count. It's not a destination they discovered on a list. It's just a place they keep going back to — the kind of spot that becomes yours without you deciding it will.

That's what made it the right call. Not the aesthetics, not the backdrop. The fact that it meant something before any of this happened.

Tandem bicycle mounted on the white barn wall at Tandem Ciders in Suttons Bay, Michigan Tiffa and Karl standing in the doorway of Tandem Ciders farmhouse after the proposal

The plan

Karl's logistics were solid. He'd had custom sweatshirts made — Tandem Ciders branding on the front, "Tandem Forever" on the back. The ring was ready. The harder part was the cold. After 21 miles on bikes, Tiffa wanted to be inside. Karl let her warm up, played it patient, then came up with a reason to get them back out to the picnic area.

I was already out there. I'd tucked my camera into my bag and found a spot behind a wall of firewood, sitting with a cider, trying to look like I belonged. The picnic benches were empty. The place was quiet. When Karl finally got Tiffa back outside, I had about ten feet of cover between me and the moment.

Karl helping Tiffa put on a custom Tandem Ciders sweatshirt just before the proposal

How it went

He gave her the sweatshirt first. She pulled it on — still cold, still not sure what was happening — and then he got down and handed her the ring. She said yes somewhere around the time she read the back of the sweatshirt.

Karl kneeling in front of Tiffa during his surprise proposal at Tandem Ciders, Suttons Bay
Tiffa and Karl sharing a joyful moment just after the proposal at Tandem Ciders Tiffa and Karl kissing after the proposal at Tandem Ciders in Suttons Bay, Michigan

We moved inside after that for some portraits in the farmhouse — dark wood, warm light coming through the windows, the kind of room that does most of the work for you. On the way back through, Tiffa ran into a bachelorette party who spotted the ring and made a whole thing of it. A good kind of thing.

Tiffa and Karl sharing a tender embrace at a picnic table at Tandem Ciders Tiffa and Karl in an intimate moment inside the Tandem Ciders farmhouse
Tiffa running joyfully toward the white barn at Tandem Ciders wearing her custom sweatshirt with Tandem Ciders on the back

At some point during portraits I put on some Metallica. Tiffa approved.

Tiffa and Karl riding bicycles in front of the white barn at Tandem Ciders after the proposal Tiffa and Karl riding bikes along a rural road near Tandem Ciders in Suttons Bay

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